Being argumentative, having a bad attitude, being aggressive, not getting along with others, being mean, wanting everything your way …….. all of this produce negative energy. You cannot see negative energy, but you can feel it and it does affect the way you react and act. For some …… stop being the producer of negative energy. For others …… do not react, respond, absorb, or give into any thing or anyone negative. Flee, walk away, and do not respond.
…….. is something you have to create. Your life doesn’t just happen. You design your own life. If there is something you don’t like, get rid of it and replace it with something you want. If you don’t like where you are living, save your money and move. If you friends are not bringing any positive value to your life, get rid of them. Create a positive, prosperous, happy, peaceful life just the way you want it. It’s your life.
Did you know ……….
that only you can change your unhappiness? What is making you unhappy? Your job? —– find a new one and quit. Your relationship? — maybe you are with the wrong person. Too much weight? Smaller portions and more exercise. Maybe it is time to get rid of some negative friends and family members. Maybe it is time to stop arguing with the “baby daddy or baby momma” and just do it yourself. Maybe it is time to pack up and move to another state and start all over.
Did you know ………..
that in order to change your life you will have to first change yourself? You have to change the way you think. (I can’t, I won’t, I’m scared, I don’t know what to do, I don’t know where to go.). You have to stop the negative self – talk and think and talk about what you want, and how you are going to get there. Change your thinking (you mindset) and your life will begin to change. Remember positive creates positive and negative creates negative.
Did you know ………
that the fear of failure with stop every dream you have? That dream job, home, vacation, business, or that book waiting to be written will not be achieved if you are afraid of failing. You have to try. You have to take the first step. Failure means you are working towards your goals. Failure means you are working towards your dreams. Fear of failure will keep you from trying, PERIOD. Fear of failure will keep you stuck right where you are.
Did you know ………..
that things will get better but not as fast as you want them? It is very important for you to learn how to be happy right now, today. If you try to wait till things get better in order to be happy, you may run out of time. Life will always have it’s ups and downs, good and bad, happy and sad times. Life is complicated. Be happy right now. Be happy everyday. Look for the good in your life every time you wake up.
Did you know …….
that what other people say about you is their opinion and not the truth? People are going to always talk, so why do we get so upset over false gossip? Whether it’s false information or the truth, what other people say about us is none of our business. Our business is to create a positive, prosperous, happy, peaceful, successful life for ourselves. What other people say about you is none of your business, so don’t take it personal. Remember, what you focus on you get more of.
Did you know …………..
that what you are complaining about is what you are accepting? What you are complaining about is what you are focused on. What you are complaining about you are creating more of. This is why you need to stop complaining and only speak what you want. To stop what you don’t want, you have to speak, think, and focus on what you want.